Aalaa wanted to supplement the family’s meager and inconsistent income, but was hampered by a language barrier. “I tried to work in Afrin,” she says, “but I couldn’t because I don’t speak the Kurdish language. I couldn’t help my husband make a living, and couldn’t even educate my children because the schools were for Kurdish-speaking students.”
As the years wore on, Mahmoud and Aalaa started to give up hope of ever returning to Hanano. In an effort to get their children enrolled in school, the couple relocated to Latakia, a city on the Mediterranean coast 125 miles away. But things only got worse. Neither Mahmoud nor Aalaa could get work.
When the Syrian army regained control of their neighborhood at the beginning of 2017, they came back to Aleppo. Theirs was a disappointing homecoming, however. Mahmoud remembers it: “We were shocked when we saw that everything in our house had been either stolen or demolished, and we had nothing left. All our furniture, our water taps, the windows, even the main door of the house were all gone. Our life savings—all we had worked for—was gone.” “Our house is as good as a barn, with no windows, no doors, nothing at all,” Aalaa adds. “Our worries have only become greater. There are no schools operating here. The future of our children is vanishing day after day.”
Being home has brought back memories for Aalaa. She remembers how her sister used to visit, how they lived together, cooked together, had conversations and worked through fights together. She says the war turned their lives to hell, but the memories of how things were before and the hope of how their lives can be keep her going. “We want to live a life without bloodshed, insults, or unfairness,” she says. “We want to live without being offended. We want to make a future for ourselves and our children.”
In spite of all they have endured, Mahmoud and Aalaa hold on to happiness. They’re putting their lives back together, piece by piece. Mahmoud looks forward to finding a job and once again settling in their house which, thanks to you, will soon be renovated.